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I volunteer up at Chicago’s own Leather Archives and Museum; because I have some archival experience, they’ve lately had me sort a bunch of ephemera. I look forward to my time at the Archives — every...
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View Article[advice] How To Break Up and Take It Like A Champ
Eventually something you love is going to be taken away. And then you will fall to the floor crying. And then, however much later, it is finally happening to you: you’re falling to the floor crying...
View ArticleErrata! Also, Hilarious Cartoon on Female Orgasm (and Reproductive Rights).
Yesterday I published a post called Feminist S&M Lessons from the Seduction Community. There was a formatting error in the post that removed three paragraphs from the first section and created an...
View ArticleI Found The Answer
I am surprised to find myself writing this blog post. But I always try to leave space for my feelings to evolve, and I’m really happy to say that I think I’ve come to a new and much healthier place....
View ArticleThat hilarious weird “vanilla fetish”
I volunteer up at Chicago’s own Leather Archives and Museum; because I have some archival experience, they’ve lately had me sort a bunch of ephemera. I look forward to my time at the Archives — every...
View ArticleEarly Folsom flier, Instigator card and awesome condom instructions
My latest Fun Finds ™ * while volunteering up at your friendly neighborhood BDSM museum, the Leather Archives: 1) Instructions on how to put on a condom, from Scat Dancer Brand Rubbers. These were...
View ArticleAnother of those not-quite-BDSM cultural traditions ….
My friend Liza, currently living in Moravia, sent me this recently and gave me permission to post it here. In my BDSM overview presentation I refer to a few groups that do “BDSM-like” activity, such as...
View Article[advice] How To Break Up and Take It Like A Champ
Eventually something you love is going to be taken away. And then you will fall to the floor crying. And then, however much later, it is finally happening to you: you’re falling to the floor crying...
View ArticleErrata! Also, Hilarious Cartoon on Female Orgasm (and Reproductive Rights).
Yesterday I published a post called Feminist S&M Lessons from the Seduction Community. There was a formatting error in the post that removed three paragraphs from the first section and created an...
View ArticleI Found The Answer
I am surprised to find myself writing this blog post. But I always try to leave space for my feelings to evolve, and I’m really happy to say that I think I’ve come to a new and much healthier place....
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